Services
Work with me one-on-one, as a couple, or as a whole polycule — online from anywhere in the USA. Sessions are tailored to where you actually are: some people come for three sessions to get through opening up, others build a longer coaching relationship around jealousy, kink or an ENM dynamic.
Sessions run online, Thursdays and Sundays. Though bespoke times can occasionally be arranged.
Couples start with an extended 75-minute first session, then move to 60 minutes ongoing, at the same rate.
Individual
55min session
From $175 USD
Couples
75min first session, then 60min ongoing
From $225 USD
Triads / Thruples / Polycules / Groups
90min session
Email for pricing
Areas of expertise
Opening up and ethical non-monogamy — for individuals and couples
Polyamory, and the practicalities of running more than one relationship
Jealousy, insecurity and the feelings that surface when things open up
Communication, consent and negotiating agreements that hold
Rebuilding intimacy and trust after a rupture or a big change
Sexual confidence and desire
Kink, BDSM and D/s dynamics — explored safely and skillfully
BDSM / KINK
Unlocking Non-Monogamy
We know exploring non-monogamy comes with a mix of curiosity, excitement, and questions. Our "Unlocking Non-monogamy" course is a considered six-session program built for couples ready to begin or deepen their journey into ethical non-monogamy (ENM). You'll be guided from the earliest steps of opening your relationship through to managing emotions like jealousy, setting boundaries, and building real trust and security.
Connected Kink
A structured six-week program for individuals and couples ready to explore BDSM and kink with confidence. Choose up to three practices from D/s (power exchange), bondage/Shibari, impact play, and role play — then work through them with expert guidance from someone with over a decade of lived experience in the UK and Australian kink scenes. We start with the foundations (safety, consent, communication, aftercare) and build from there. Short on time? The full journey is also available as a single one-day intensive.
Explore a diverse range of intimate connections with Non-Monogamy Co. Wherever you are in the USA, discover how to create and grow inside of Ds relationships. Our responsibility is to give a guiding hand to those intrigued by the power of Dominance and submission. Whether you're new to the idea or seeking to develop your understanding, our Kink Coach is here to direct you on an excursion of exploration and connection.
Dive into alternative-sexuality with our online kink coaching in America. Customized for all degrees of curiosity and experience, these sessions offer a special chance to learn, share, and celebrate the joys of kink and fetish. Our inclusive environment encourages a feeling of community, ensuring that everybody feels enabled to explore their desires in a protected and consensual space.
Have a life-changing experience with our specialized Experiential BDSM Coaching — an immersive program delivered online for the USA. Individuals or couples can dive deep into their desire. Unlock kinks / fetishes. Learn Shibari, flogging, wax play, how to cultivate Dominance or submission and more. Or let us customize an experiential learning experience just for you to learn the things that make you feel most turned on. These sessions create a space for self-awareness, allowing individuals and couples to explore the intricacies of BDSM in a strong and conscious setting.
Frequently Asked Questions
How many sessions will I need?
Most clients start with a single session and decide from there. Opening up a relationship usually takes somewhere in the range of three to six sessions — enough to get through the hard conversations and out the other side with a plan.
Do you coach all relationship structures?
Yes — couples, triads, thruples, polycules, individuals, and monogamous pairs who are exploring change. No structure is too tidy or too complicated.
Do you work with clients across the USA?
Yes. Every session is online by video, with times built around North American evenings and weekends — Thursdays and Sundays.
What is a sexologist, and is James one?
A sexologist is a trained specialist in human sexuality — sexual health, function, behavior and relationships. Yes, James is one. He's certified through the Somatica Institute in San Francisco.
Can I book a free introductory call?
I offer free 15-minute introductory calls to learn more about your needs, understand your unique situation and answer any questions you may have before booking.
To get started, click the Book a Session button anywhere on the site to view current availability and choose a time that suits you.
Sex and Relationship Coaching is not psychotherapy. I am not a physician, psychiatrist, psychologist, licensed social worker or licensed marriage and family therapist, and I do not offer therapy, psychotherapy or medical advice.
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